This blog was born out of a deep desire to find a safe space to share my thoughts but for the longest time, I never really found one. So I made one.

At first, I just wanted to be voice out my thoughts. To make sense of all the things I felt too deeply to ignore. But somewhere along the way, that desire shifted. It became less about being seen and more about helping others feel seen and understood. Even if it’s just one person.

Here, I write about relationships, self-growth, spirituality, and the quiet process of becoming YOU. Some of these musings are soft, some are sharp, but all are honest. They’re the kind of thoughts that linger in the back of the mind, the kind that need somewhere to land.

My Private Musings is a space for softness. A quiet unfolding of thought, feeling, and everything in between offered with care, and held with understanding and tenderness.

Welcome in. Stay as long as you need.

Violet Lee Harris
Writer. Observer. Deep Thinker, Even Deeper Feeler.